When I split up with my husband, I thought that I was in a real sexual rut if you know what I mean. My husband and I had always been into the same thing, and I guess that you can only call it rather tame sex. When we first met, I did not have a lot of sexual experience and I thought of our sex life as rather exciting. But as I got older, I felt that I wanted something else, and started to work part time for a London escorts service. My husband did not know anything about it, and it was something that I did just for me.

I am sure that you can imagine that most London escorts are rather interested in sex. The girls who worked for the same London escorts service as me, had found many exciting ways to express themselves sexually and I started to do the same. It was not something that I rushed into. Rather I stepped out of my sexual comfort zone little by little and that helped a lot. My sex life with my husband was as boring as ever, and I did not have a lot of hope that it would ever improve as my husband did not really seem to get turned on by the things that I wanted to do.

Did I give up on having sex with my husband? No, I did not give up on having sex with my husband. He was sort of my missionary guy, and my colleagues at London escorts ended up being my free spirited friends. Did it help that the girls were younger? I think that it did in a way as most of the were much more okay with the new sexual movement and feel coming through society. In their eyes, if you felt like kissing a girl, you simply did so. It was not a big deal to them, and soon it was not a big deal for me.

My husband and I have been living apart fro six months now. We are going through counselling as you have to do today, but I don’t want to go back to him. He says that he would love to rekindle our love. What is that all about? I just felt like a slave to him, and I am much more liberated now when I earn my own money with London escorts. My plans for the future is to my a place in London, and turn into a personal love shack where I can help other to unleash their sexuality and finally start enjoying themselves. I am sure that there are people out there who would love to step out their sexual comfort zone.

When you are serious about stepping out of your sexual comfortable zone, there is no need to rush things. If you do that, you will find that things will go wrong. I meet a lot of gents at London escorts who like to do so too quickly. They have seen a BDSM movie and got really turned on. All of sudden they are sure that BDSM is for them, but in reality, it is way out of their comfort zone. It is one thing watching a BDSM porn, and a completely different thing being the cast. You need to take it slow and find your feet. It is a little bit like learning how to drive a car. At first it does not feel natural at all, but once you have done it a couple of times, you change gear without even thinking about it. Stepping out of your own sexual comfort zone is a bit like learning how to drive again.

How to step out of your sexual comfort zone
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